I was watching a movie late night yesterday - two lovers (Joequin Phoenix and Gywneth Paltrow).
The guy is a bipolar in this. His parents are doing their best to have a safe and insured life for him. at one point in the movie his father asks him - "Are you happy?" this is with respect to the events happening.
This is probably something we miss very often in our daily lives. We forget to ask this simple question our selves and the close ones.